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Enthusiasm For Sex Isn’t The Same Thing As Sex-Positivity

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It seems like every time I turn around, someone is standing under the banner of sex-positivity and proclaiming “Sex is awesome! Everyone should totally be doing it!” I certainly understand why folks fall into that trap- sex is so shamed in our society that it’s easy for people to jump to the conclusion that the […]

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Letting Go of Believing That You Have to Be Young to Be Sexy

This post first appeared on the Good Vibrations Magazine. It’s hardly news that US culture is obsessed with youth. The massive amount of advertising for products to make us look or feel younger is ample evidence. While we generally think of this as more of a factor in terms of how we evaluate female attractiveness, […]

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What Tiger Woods Can Tell Us About Sex Addiction

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This also appeared in the Good Vibrations Magazine. Unless you’ve been avoiding the news lately, you’re probably aware that Tiger Woods is in the middle of the latest celebrity sex scandal. And I think that the media kerfulffle over this has a lot to tell us about what we think about sex. The first thing […]

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On Being a Transgender Child

via therumpus.net “It’s ok to be different because it just matters who you are. It doesn’t matter if you’re different than anybody else. It just matters if you’re having a good time and you like who you are.” Why does that seem so hard for so many people to understand?

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why sex-positivity is good for feminism

I just ran across a blog about “Why Sex-Positivity is Bad for Feminism” and I’m astounded. Here’s my favorite snippet: Of course, there are a lot of feminist issues involved in the porn industry, sex work, and in human sexuality; I just don’t think “sex positivity” is one of them. So you’re a feminist, and […]

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gonzo porn, realtity shows, and extreme sports

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Porn has changed a lot over the years. First came the film loops that men watched in social clubs and at bachelor parties. Then we had the era of the classic movies that were filmed for the big screen. Next came the VCR revolution, which shifted the focus from movie theaters to the living room. […]

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a fabulous set of photos of older adults

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Via Fleshbot This makes me really happy. Photographer Katrin Trautner has a gallery of older folks in some sweet, funny, and sexy poses. They look like they’re really having fun and it’s so great to see nude photographs of people who aren’t ripped, tanned, airbrushed, and such. Plus, some of the photos look truly, deeply […]

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