“Why would someone enjoy that?” “I just don’t get why someone has sex like that?” “Why do you do that? That’s gross!” Have you ever heard someone something like this? I definitely have. Whether it’s about spanking & bondage, anal sex, role play, casual sex, or, yes, intercourse, there’s often a little laugh. But the […]

I’ve heard a lot of people talking about sex-positivity, especially on teh interwebs. But I don’t see as much clarity around it as I’d like. So here’s my take on what it. First off, what sex-positivity isn’t: Sex-positivity isn’t about how much sex you have, how many partners you have, what types of sex you […]

Unless you’ve been really out of touch, you’ve probably already heard about how the Mormon Church has poured millions of dollars into Proposition 8, the proposed amendment to the California constitution that would ban same-sex marriage. Mind you, this is money coming from outside the state, from a tax-exempt church in order to fund a […]

It’s amazing to me that anyone could ever get bored with sex. After all, there’s so much to do. But if you’re tired of the same-old, same-old and you’re not sure what else you can try, check out this map to the sexual world. I’ve put a thumbnail here: Click to view large. Imagine yourselves […]